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    Kris

    Here’s a post from my own personal blog from someone who has had a cheating husband.

    I have been married for 21 years and recently my husband got facebook…
    MY fault really as I told him to get one. He did and an old friend from
    grade school/high school found him. Apparently they exchange cell
    numbers and personal e-mails and I caught him talking to her a lot on
    the cell and privately. I confronted him immediately and told him that
    it hurts me. He agreed that it was wrong to hide it and he was sorry he
    hurt me… Then I caught him on the computer talking to her, although
    not as private but it is in his office area in the house where I cannot
    see. I do not know passwords to his e-mails etc… But I told him again,
    how hurt I am. I saw photos of this chick and she is amazingly
    beautiful and seems to just be perfect. He’s known her since
    kindergarten, but lost touch when they were juniors in high school. I
    researched the crap out of her and know a lot of things he didn’t even
    know. She is married and has a 15 year kid. We have 2 kids, a 19 year
    old and a 14 year old. Apparently she is unhappy in her life and because
    I have gotten heavy over the years and such our intimacy has diminished
    to nothing. So he says he feels like he wants to maybe explore what
    could have been with her or anyone cutie that looks at him and says hi.
    He started working out after he found this girl and I knew there were
    red flags. Like I said I confronted him. This was a big wake up call for
    me. I am now getting myself in shape too and trying to figure out what
    will happen. He says he loves me and won’t leave me and he feels bad
    that he hurt me, but he won’t stop talking to her. I am not sure what I
    should do. He is recently unemployed. I get it he is bored and depressed
    and needs someone to talk to. But does it really HAVE to be her??? I do
    hate her and I don’t even know her! What should I do?

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    K. Hampton

    and because
    I have gotten heavy over the years and such our intimacy has diminished
    to nothing. So he says he feels like he wants to maybe explore what
    could have been with her or anyone cutie that looks at him and says hi.

    Your husband is a real JERK. I hope you left him. He openly admits that he wants to “explore”.

    If he is bored and needs someone to talk to why doesn’t he talk to you? That’s just another

    excuse so he can “explore”. I think you should continue on with your plan to stay healthy,

    and get back in shape, and when you get back in shape tell him that you would like to “explore” as well. JERK

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