Reverse Image Tracking

Have you ever heard of a search engine for images? No, this isn’t like Google Images where you type in words and find pictures, it’s a search engine that lets you search for images, using images you upload or link to. There’s quite a few image based search engines around, but for this article, we’ll choose the one which I think is the best (it’s free and effective). Reverse image searching is also known as  Content-Based Image Retrieval (CBIR), and is one of the methods we listed in the how to catch a cheating spouse main article, and is also useful for child protection when you want to do a background check on some of your kids friends.

How Does Reverse Image Tracking Work?

Simply put, image based search engines work just like a regular search engine, but you search for images using other images instead of words. Whenever you upload or direct link a picture to the CBIR, they search their database for pictures that either look exactly like your picture, or those that are closely related. This is a rather new type of search engine, and unlike Google (the word based google), it has not enough resources yet to scan the whole web, but they do cover most of the popular sites like Facebook, Myspace, and any other social networking/dating site you could think of. Jump down to the example below for the reverse image tracker.

Catching A Cheating Spouse With Reverse Image Tracking

 

Acquiring The Pictures And What To Look For :

Pictures of your spouse on any social networks – You’ll want to see if your spouse has any other secret social networking profiles, so you’ll want to scan their profiles pics. If you’re lucky, you may get a matching picture from another social network you don’t know about. Most spouses who cheat online start off using social networking sites and chat rooms, so this is a good place to run reverse image tracking.

Pictures of people you suspect are having an affair with your spouse – To see other places they have pictures on. It’s not uncommon for cheaters to have more than one site they posts pics to, and they usually keep facebook pages “clean” because it’s more visible. You might see pictures of them with your spouse if you’re (un)lucky.

Pictures of spouse’s workmates – Some companies have company websites with pictures and bios of their employees, good place to scan for possible relationships that are being kept secret from you; search their pics and check if they have any social sites attached to that picture.

 

Example of How To Track Spouse’s Pictures

reverse image tracking example picAs an example, lets pretend Audrey Hepburn is your spouse. We’ll track a picture of Audrey Hepburn and find out where else this beautiful actress’ picture is located on the web.

Step 1 : Download / Collect all pictures you want to track

Profile pictures work best because can possibly lead you to other sites that they own, and you don’t know about; or forum/blog posts that talk about them.

Step 2 : Upload or Link an already hosted picture

Upload / Link to your image here

When directly linking a picture, you need to right click the image and select “View Image” or something similar, depending on your browser. The URL you need to be linking should be on that points directly to the image, nothing else but the image.

For this example, our link is “http://relationshipyard.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/audrey-hepburn-example.jpg”.

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Step 3 : List down links and investigate

Check out where your spouse’s pictures are posted at and who owns those websites. You can further investigate using reverse phone lookups if you find any telephone/cellphone numbers (this is only for those based in the US). The only way this won’t work is if pictures are set to private.

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For better results, make sure “Best Match” is checked so you filter out the edited/similar pictures like this :

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Additional Information :

Speed up the process by installing the following :

Firefox internet browser (free)

TinEye Firefox Plugin (free)

Now all you have to do when you want to search an image using reverse image tracking is to right click and select “Search Image On TinEye”. To remove tineye plugin from firefox, or to configure it, go to Tools -> Add-Ons -> TinEye and either select “uninstall” or “options” to configure.

 

Reverse Phone Lookups To Catch Spouse Cheating

In this article we will talk about reverse phone / mobile phone lookups to help us catch a cheating spouse. As of now, I have only found reverse number lookup services for USA based people, I will add reverse phone lookup Canada and UK services once we’ve tested some that work and are not that expensive (some charge $50+). Follow the link above for other ways to catch your spouse cheating. You can also use this method to find a phone number on map for free.

 

What Is A Reverse Phone Lookup Service?

A reverse phone lookup service (also called reverse number lookup, gray pages, reverse directory, yellow pages reverse lookup or white pages reverse lookup) is a service that lets you track someone’s details without knowing their name, or address. Unlike the regular white pages, yellow pages, or any kind of telephone directory where you need to know a person or business’ name, you only need to enter their number on the reverse phone lookup website and you will be able to retrieve their details; in a regular phone directory you search for names to get numbers, in a reverse phone directory you search for numbers to get names.

The details that are commonly shown to you, for the free reverse phone lookup: google maps exact position of the phone (if it’s landline, not cell phone), address, phone provider and sometimes the first name of the owner of the phone. I haven’t found a free phone number reverse lookup with names (complete names) involved, but I have tried a background check service where you track someone by using their name, and not their number. We’ll discuss that background check service in another article, although some reverse phone lookup services offer this in a bundle. For $50 or so you will get all the publicly accessible data (criminal records, divorce records, etc), a good way to protect your children from known criminals or sex offenders, not exactly that helpful to us in catching a cheater.

 

How Does Reverse Phone Number Lookup Work?

Reverse phone, or reverse cell phone lookup services hire people to collect all publicly accessible data and enter it into their database. They charge the searcher a small fee, usually $19 a month for unlimited number lookups, or a small one time fee($3-7) for a single report on a phone number. Some unlisted numbers (unlisted from local telephone directories) are also included in their databases, those come from services you sign up for that publicly display your details.

 

Reverse Phone Lookup To Catch A Cheating Spouse

The best reverse phone lookup services offer a full background check on the owner of the phone, something that private investigators use. I don’t recommend those that cost $50+ because I don’t think it will be anyway helpful to someone who is trying to prove their spouses are having an affair. Always pick the cheapest service you can get.

Update March 2015 : The reverse phone lookup service I previously recommended has closed down, and I have yet to find something that is as cheap as $3. So for the meantime you can use a free service with less features. This site also lets you search by name + state. (USA only, sorry)

When trying to find out if your spouse is having an affair, you should collect all unknown phone numbers that call your house, or if you can, check the cell phone numbers of your spouse’s phone. Look at all your spouse’s call history and list down all phone numbers they called, who has called them, and those that lasted for longer than a few minutes. Once you’ve created a list, run those numbers in a reverse phone lookup service and check the location of the phones. You will be able to tell if your spouse could possibly be having a physical affair with those people if their locations are close to your own, if they’ve been talking for long periods of time but the locations is not close enough to drive to, they may be having an emotional affair.

An example of a reverse phone lookup service is the form you see to your right. If you already have a list, or a few numbers you are suspicious of, try entering them on the form and you will find the exact source of that number. It’s free to find the phone number on google maps, but for a full report it will cost you $3. To see how it works, see the example screenshots below of me tracking a phone number’s address.

Reverse Number Search Demonstration

For the purpose of demonstrating the reverse number search service (the form attached above, to the right), we are going to use Harvard’s contact details (which is publicly available, I won’t use anyone’s personal phone). Let’s pretend that Harvard’s contact number is actually an unknown number we found on our phone bills, caller ID, or our spouse’s cell phone. We ask our spouse about it but they don’t tell us who it is and why they’ve been talking a lot. We suspect they may be having an affair, or if you are thinking of protecting your kids, maybe you want to make sure the people who contact them have no criminal records. This particular service is a reverse phone lookup AND offers criminal background checks, as well as divorce / marriage records; full details on the service is listed below the demonstration.

To get answers to our questions, we will run a reverse phone no. lookup by using the form above. Here’s what we’ll get after inputting the phone number in the form :

Free reverse phone lookup Google results

Free Reverse Phone Lookup Google Maps Results

In the photo above, you’ll see that the results include google maps, which is very powerful on it’s own as you can mark a location and ask google to give you exact directions on how to get there. Google also lets you view pictures of that area and nearby webcams. So for the free reverse phone lookup, we get their general area, a visual on the map (powered by google), the type of phone, and service provider.

From here we can easily tell whether or not our spouses are cheating with the person (physically), if it’s too far to drive to in an hour or less, it’s most likely not a physical affair. You can run all of the numbers you’ve collected on the form above for FREE. To get additional details though, like their exact name and full address, you will need to pay the $3 trial fee. This is the best value that I’ve found because if you choose to be a member, you also get background reports (will include criminal records, court cases, divorce records, marriage details, and previously owned properties) all for the price of just a regular reverse phone service.

When you’ve found out details of the numbers you’ve checked, and one of them seems suspicious, ask your husband or wife about that number, try to get as much details as you can. Important details are the name and address. You’ll obviously know the area, so you will be able to tell whether or not they are lying to you about the address. The important part is the name. You will want to get your spouse to give you the name of the owner of the phone number you are suspicious about, because on that same site there is a “people search” that allows you to search by name. It will display their general area the same way their phone number displayed a basic free reverse phone lookup result. If they say the name of the person is “Bob Doe” and he lives at “Utah” you’ll know they’re lying if the reverse phone number and people search tells you they are from New York.

people search lookup results

You can search for someone based on their names as well.

To confirm whether or not your spouse is lying, use the $3 trial and search for both the name that your spouse gave you, and the phone number you found. If they aren’t lying, “Bob Doe” should appear as the owner of the number you searched for, if they are lying the number you searched for may belong to someone else. Don’t panic though if you don’t see the same name, maybe they are living with that person and they aren’t actually the registered owner. To confirm that even further, ask one of your friend’s to call that number and look for “Bob Doe”.

 

Tips to catch a cheating spouse with reverse phone lookup

1. Gather a list of suspicious phone / mobile phone numbers.
2. Input them on the form above.
3. Ask your spouse for the name of the owner of the cell phone or landline you checked.
4. Did they give you a name?
A. Match the name they gave with the results of both the reverse phone number, and people search results. If they were telling the truth, the reverse phone lookup’s location results should match the people search’s location results (they both show locations for free). If the results don’t match, you just caught holes in their excuses.
B. If they did not give you the name, pay the $3 trial fee and find out the full details of the owner of that phone number and continue on with your research on that person. See how they are connected to your spouse, or ask your spouse directly who that person is, since you already know they called your spouse’s cell phone/landline.
5. Did the name your spouse gave you not match the name the reverse phone lookup service gave you? Ask a friend to call that phone number and look for the person your spouse mentioned. If no one lives there by that name, you just caught them lying to you again. If you’ve successfully found the person your spouse mentioned, either confront them about their relationship with your spouse, or hold off and do more detective work.

 

Other Features Of This Reverse Phone Lookup Service

This is not true for all reverse phone lookup services, only with the one we selected for this article. We selected this particular company because most of their tools are the same things private investigators use when you hire them. Besides getting their reverse phone number lookup, you will also get :

Background Checks

Court Records – if they have been convicted of any crimes
Marriage and Divorce Records – to check up on their ex husbands or wives
Birth Records
Death Records
Property Records – what they currently own
Asset Information – useful if you’re having a divorce

People Search

Phone numbers
Email addresses – amazingly helpful if you suspect your spouse has hidden emails that they use to contact other people with.
Address history – past and present addresses
Relatives and associates – to find out if the person your spouse is cheating with is an co-worker

Criminal Records

Arrest and conviction records – more for the safety of your children than catching a cheating spouse
Felonies and misdemeanor
Sex offenders – very important if you are checking up on the neighborhood you and your kids are part of
Mug shots
Criminal driving infractions – again, very important when checking up on the people your children associate with
Court and probation records

Internet Sites

Target’s social sites (facebook, myspace etc)
Target’s Photos and Videos on social sites
Blogs or websites that they own

 

Additional Information :

1. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reverse_telephone_directory
2. http://whocallsme.com/ – a free user created database. Got a prank caller or telemarketer that won’t stop calling your home or cell phone? Add it to the database, or check if it already exists.

GPS Vehicle Tracking Devices

This is one of the ways mentioned in the main how to catch a cheating spouse article. In this article we will be talking about the types of GPS (Global Positioning System) devices, mainly the ones used for vehicle tracking. This will only be a general guide to help you pick your own tracker; for direct product recommendations follow this link to the gps car tracking devices page.

Before buying or using any type of GPS device or spy tools, please check your local state laws. It is absolutely illegal to attach and monitor a vehicle that does not belong to you.

What are GPS Vehicle Tracking Devices?

GPS vehicle trackers are small devices that you can hide on your car that will allow you to track it’s location via Google Maps; some of the older GPS car trackers have their own built in system that does not make use of Google maps, but it will still display the exact location of your car on a similar platform.These are also some of the most common tools Private Investigators use to follow your spouse’s car. For the purpose of this article we will only focus on GPS devices that will help us catch a cheating spouse, and monitor our children’s activities, we will not be talking about GPS devices that are used for navigational purposes.

How Do I Use GPS To Catch A Cheating Spouse?

You select which type of tracker you want to use, and attach it to your vehicle. Once attached and active, the GPS device will continually record the location of your spouse’s car. You will be able to know exactly where they are, and what time they were there. Unlike the simple free method which tells you to monitor your spouse’s mileage and gas consumption, this will provide verifiable evidence that your spouse is lying to you about their location.

You will have proof of where they were, but not who they are with; so before any confrontation, you might consider following them next time they head to their “secret” place and check up on them and who they’re with. You could do this yourself, or even better get a friend to do it for you so they can follow them without being noticed. If you can afford to spend hundreds of dollars, you could hire a private investigator to do this for you.  If you plan on following your spouse or having a friend follow them, you are looking to buy a “real-time” GPS tracker. If you just want to know whether or not your spouse is lying to you about where they are going, you will want a cheap “passive tracker”.

 

Types of GPS trackers

Real-time GPS Trackers

GPS Tracker

Satellites are used to monitor GPS trackers.

A real time GPS tracker is the one you should get if you want to be able to monitor the tracker remotely. There are usually three items you get when you buy a realtime tracker, the tracker itself, the receiver, and the software.

The GPS receiver is the part of your GPS tracking system that collects the data from the tracker, and allows you to view it remotely via the computer, laptop, or your cell phone. Most modern GPS systems will make use of Google Maps when displaying data.

The GPS tracker is the part of your GPS system that you attached to the car, bag, pet, or whatever you want to monitor. This transmits it’s location to the receiver, and may be powered by rechargeable batteries, or directly attached to your car’s battery. More advanced GPS devices have built in functions to send “emergency rescue” signals.

The GPS software is basically your user interface for accessing the data your receiver has gathered. Some GPS trackers, those that use websites to feed you the data, will directly link you to google maps. Website based trackers more often than not require a monthly or yearly subscription.

This is recommended for people that want to protect their car from theft, or as mentioned above, so you can follow or have a friend follow your spouse’s location.

Passive GPS Trackers

Passive GPS trackering systems only consist of the GPS tracker, and software (same as above). They basically act the same but with no remote access for the passive tracker. That means if you hide it in your car, you will need to wait for your car to return home to be able to retrieve the data via computer or laptop USB. This is a nice cheaper alternative to the real-time trackers if you want to monitor your spouse’s location, but it is useless if you are buying a GPS tracker for the purpose of protecting your car.

This is recommended for people who want to catch their spouse cheating, it’s simple, cheap and provides us with everything we need; factual evidence that they are lying about where they were. If you want to follow your spouse, you will need the real-time tracker.

Disguised GPS Trackers

These can be passive or real-time, the only difference is they are made to look like everyday items. There are some GPS gadgets that are made to look like pens, some dog collars, some stuffed toys. I wouldn’t recommend these for catching a cheater, especially the smaller ones mainly because GPS trackers usually cost anywhere between $50-100 while a “disguised” GPS tracker will almost double the price. For the SAME features. It’s not worth it in my opinion. If you want a disguised tracker, buy a cheap GPS and stuff it into a teddy bear, or a tissue box in your car, or into a baby car seat. Be creative, don’t pay double for something you can use your creativity on. What is useful though are the GPS watches, and personal trackers which are the size of an ipod, but thicker.

This is recommended for young kids, the GPS watches are helpful and durable; the personal GPS trackers have built in “panic buttons” to alert authorities.

Personal GPS Trackers

These devices are another form of “real time” GPS tracking, with the added features of built in panic buttons. Panic buttons are used to send out an SOS to the receiver (your computer, laptop, or cell phone) at home, to a set of contacts via email or cell phone, and, depending on the model you pick, may even send out a distress signal directly to your local emergency response center .The response center then contacts your local police, the coast guard, or if your personal GPS tracker supports global tracking, the tracker will contact your embassy. Abusing this feature will get you in lots of trouble.

Personal GPS trackers cost exceptionally more than the other trackers because of the panic button feature, as well as the lengthy battery life. A $200+ unit will have a battery lifetime of up to a month.

This is recommended for monitoring your children, or any relative that works in a dangerous area. Downside of this is it is rather large and bulky, think walkman size, and the subscription fee is typically higher than the normal active tracker. If you are too young to know what a walkman is, think ipod, but around 2-3 inches thick. I just gave away my age there :).

Cell phone GPS trackers

These are spy software for cell phones that are coupled with the ability to read any texts, emails sent from the phone, as well as view the phonebook or call history. We already covered this in another article, see the article on cell phone trackers for more information.

This is recommended for tracking a mobile phone’s location if a car is not available. Also added features such as monitoring text messages, emails, and websites visited.

 

What Is The Best GPS To Buy For Cars?

It depends on what you want it for. If you are planning to use it to monitor where your spouse or kids location was for a day, the simple passive tracker will fulfill your needs; assuming that they will be returning back home and you will have physical access to the tracker. If you are planning to buy a car tracker for the sake of securing your car (anti theft), you will need a real-time GPS tracker for the remote checking functionality, passive trackers are obviously useless here since you won’t ever see your car again.

If buying for the sake of just catching a cheating spouse, pick the cheapest GPS tracker you can find that only reports back location. If buying for the sake of monitoring your kids I would recommend something that logs the location AND the travel speed, so you’ll know if your children are breaking the speed limits and you can warn them. When buying for the sake of protecting a vehicle, location is the only thing that really matters; most real-time subscription based GPS products monitor the tracker from any location in the country, some (cell phone trackers especially) even monitor internationally.

If you’re looking for an exact model, please see the link above to the product review page.

 

What Is The Best GPS Tracker For Kids?

For kids, not old enough to drive, you can give them GPS tracking watches, keychains, or personal GPS trackers. They are usually small enough to fit in their bags. Personal GPS trackers are a type of real-time trackers with built in functions such as calling 911, sending SOS to the receiver, and works anywhere on the planet. These personal GPS trackers should only be used for monitoring your children, they are too expensive to be used for simply trying to catch your spouse cheating; prices average between $100-200+, but it is WELL worth it to have a panic button for your child to push in case they are in danger.

 

Where Should I Hide My GPS Tracker?

  1. For micro trackers, these are so small they can be kept inside briefcases and purses. Downside to these “micro GPS” are that it is usually the passive data collector type. Real-time GPS trackers are a bit bigger so it wouldn’t hide well in a purse. I suggest taping the micro trackers in a briefcase pocket.
  2. For magnetic GPS tracking devices, the best places to hide it in are the trunk, above the tires (they will stick to metal and are very study), underneath the dashboard, and behind the bumper of your car.
  3. Simple everyday items that are big enough that you can stuff a small GPS tracker in it. No reason to spend extra for some of the custom made “disguised GPS units”, just create them yourselves. Some common items to put in your car and stuff a GPS tracker into are: a tissue box, stuffed toys, car pillows, DVD cases, and child seats and toys.

 

Additional information

It is illegal to monitor a vehicle, that you do not own, by attaching a GPS tracking device to it, but did you know that a government agent CAN track anyone’s property even without a warrant? They can sneak in to your house at night and attach a GPS car tracing device while you are sleeping. Read an article on time magazine which talks about this, the article is by Adam Cohen, lawyer and Time writer : http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,2013150,00.html

How To Catch A Cheating Spouse

Do you already know that your spouse is cheating on you? Just need to be a hundred percent sure before you take action on your relationship? In this article we will list down ways on how you can catch your spouse cheating. Before you read this, you may want to also read signs of a cheating spouse. Below is a general overview on what tools and methods we have at our disposal, follow the relevant links for a more detailed article on each method described. This section will be updated whenever something new has been found that can help us catch a cheating spouse, your suggestions are more than welcome (use the form linked above or leave it in the comments).

Please do your own research on state laws regarding the use of spy tools to monitor someone else’s conversations. I will not be responsible for providing legal advice for you, when in doubt contact a private investigator or divorce attorney.

A quick tip to keep the data that you have gathered secure, we never want cheaters to know we are on to them, is to start a free blogger.com blog and set it to invitation only. That way no one but you can access the things you have written. What I would do is list down every cheating sign I observed from my cheating spouse and the results of using the following methods and gadgets.

 

Ways to catch a cheating spouse

1.Cell Phone Trackers

Have you ever heard of these? These are programs which you install on your cellphones and have it collect data for you. That data is then sent to a server via the internet which you can access through your home computer or laptop. After manual installation on your phone, you can then leave these cell phone spies alone and just remotely access the data. Most of these work for all the latest mobile phones and the quality ones are always made to be undetectable. Their price ranges from $10 dollars a month, to $60 dollars per quarter. Very affordable, very effective. A top pick for catching a spouse who always has a mobilephone handy. We will not be talking about remotely activated mobilephones[1], those are costly and should not be recommended to anyone who is not a professional spy. It is also illegal to monitor other people’s mobile phones, you should only monitor a phone that you own. What we will talk about are cellphone spies that have text monitoring services as well as GPS trackers. Read the full Cell Phone Tracker article.

2. Keyloggershow to catch a cheating spouse

Keyloggers are devices or software that monitor keystrokes on your computer, which is called keystroke logging[2]. Keyloggers can be useful to you if your suspected cheater is on the computer or laptop a lot (nowadays, who isn’t). The only downside to this method of catching a spouse is that laptops have no other option other than using software keyloggers which you need to install because it wouldn’t make sense to add a hardware keylogger onto a  laptop. A hardware keylogger is more suitable for desktop computers. It is a small device that needs no installation, other than physically inserting it into your keyboard slot located at the back of the CPU. Downside of the hardware keylogger vs the software keylogger is storage space. With hardware keyloggers you are allotted a certain amount of space depending on the type of keylogger used. Software keyloggers make use of the computer or laptops own storage space, so the difference is immense considering hardware keyloggers only reach up to 12 gigabytes and start costing upwards of $50. Please remember that you should never monitor a laptop or computer that is not yours. Read the full Catch a cheating spouse with Keyloggers article.

3. GPS

Or Global Positioning Systems[3], is a way of tracking a device remotely from your pc or laptop. These devices are commonly attached to cars, but recent cellphone spies are so advanced that they have added this functionality to their software. The commonly found GPS devices will let you monitor the device using Google Maps, which makes it a very very powerful tool. Google Maps even allow you to view webcams located in those areas, and get the complete directions to get to that area, from a chosen area of origin (your home for example). The most solid way of busting the lies told to you by your spouse. No more 5 hour long shopping trips, GPS devices will tell you exactly where their went and for how long. Again, this should never be used to track a car that you do not own. It is illegal to GPS track anything but your own property. Read the full GPS Vehicle Tracking Devices article.

4. Reverse Phone Lookups

Also called Reverse telephone directory[4], is a service that lets you track a phone number, be it cellphone or home phone. You can now reverse phone lookup those unknown numbers that keep calling you! The downside is, some people can pay to get removed off of the reverse phone lookup database. Ever wonder how that telemarketer got your phone number? They used the reverse telephone directory. So if you want your details kept off, you’ll have to pay a fee. Another downside is that you will have to pay a fee to access full reports, I have not found a website that offers reverse phone lookups for free. The common details provided are Phone owner’s full name, address, what type of phone (cellphone or landline), and other associated phone numbers. Read the full Reverse Phone Lookups article.

5. Image Tracking

This is simply a search engine, for pictures. Something that is fairly new technology. It’s not the same as google that you type words, instead you show the search engine images. It also may be referred to as Content-Based Image Retrieval (CBIR)[5]. This is useful if you want to run your spouse’s pictures on a CBIR database to see where those pictures are listed on the internet. There is no fee for this service. There are however, limitation. For example, you find your spouse’s picture and they are with an unknown person who they won’t tell you about so you decide to do a search. You will not find that picture online if that picture is saved somewhere on Facebook or Multiply or any other type of social site that is set to private. Only public websites work, and as of now there are no CBIR companies that are big enough (say like google), who scan the entire internet. Read the full Reverse Image Tracking article

6. Video Surveillance Equipment

Hidden cameras are another effective solution to cheaters who have “visitors” at home while you are away. There are different types of surveillance equipment, and the hidden cameras are a little bit on the expensive side ($100+). What you’ll want to use is something that is small, and motion activated so you do not have to risk running out of storage for capturing video (and audio if you choose). This method has been made famous by a hit TV series called “Cheaters”, with Joey Greco.

7. Private investigators

Private eyes are the last thing you should consider if you do not have the cash. They are the most expensive way to catch a cheating spouse, but they are also the most reliable way. All you do is pay, and they will have every tool described here and more to track and document your cheating spouse’s activities. It is not uncommon to receive a bill of $3k or more for hiring a P.I. to track someone out of town for several days. A private investigator may also provide assistance to your attorney in civil cases such as helping you get child custody, premarital screening, and proving whether or not your spouse is cheating on your or not[6].

8. Setting traps

Something often overlooked, setting simple “traps” can help tell us if there are things going on in our home when we are away. A trap can be as simple as putting a thin see through tape at the back end of your toilet seat. If you are expecting no one to be home, and you apply this toilet seat trap, the most likely situation you would walk into when you get home is the tape would still be there. But if that tape is broken, you’ll know someone has been in your bathroom. Simple, free, effective. Read the full Free Ways To Catch Your Cheating Spouse article.

 

Other Ways To Catch A Cheating Spouse That Is –NOT– Recommended

1. Lie Detector Tests

These are not just expensive, they’re subjective as well. The will of the examiner and how nervous the person taking the test is what will determine whether or not they will look guilty or innocent according to the lie detector. People react differently when lying, and lie detector test examiners have different approaches in “controlling” your response. Lie detectors are not even supported by the scientific community. Trickery, not science, is what is used to get the “truth” out of you. If you would like to find out more about why a lie detectors should never be used, read this book “The Lie Behind The Lie Detector“[7] by George W. Maschke and Gino J. Scalabrini from antipolygraph.org

2. Impersonation

Calling up credit card companies, banks, phone companies, internet service providers and pretending to be someone you’re not is impersonation, or if you do it online it’s called Phishing[8]. Say for example you found out the identity of the person your spouse is cheating on you with, then you use his or her name and pretend to be them in order to phish information, you can and most probably will get sued if they find out about it. Stick to watching for signs of cheating and focusing on your own spouse. Leave the other person alone, avoid all interaction unless you are going to confront them with legally acquired proof that they have been cheating with your spouse.

 

Additional Information

1. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Covert_listening_device#Remotely_activated_mobile_phone_microphones
2. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Keystroke_logging
3. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Global_Positioning_System
4. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reverse_telephone_directory
5. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image_retrieval#Search_methods
6. http://www.bls.gov/oco/ocos157.htm#nature
7. http://www.antipolygraph.org/lie-behind-the-lie-detector.pdf
8. http://kb.iu.edu/data/arsf.html#explained