Too many women act like the cheating thing is always the man doing it.
I agree, this is what the media has painted and is considered truth by majority.
It isn’t. And when they do cheat they come up with the great excuses why it wasn’t their fault.
This is true for both sexes, cheaters always come up with excuses.
When the trust is gone so it the relationship and so is the marriage.
I agree a hundred percent.
My advice to any guy out there wondering what to do after finding out their wife is cheating is to get out of the marriage. End it. It’s already done anyways. Stinks real bad if there are kids involved but it isn’t ever going to get better. And yea – once a cheater, always a cheater.
There’s always chance for change, and I disagree that once a cheater always a cheater. Sometimes people cheat because they are either physically, or emotionally deprived by their spouses. Do I think it justifies cheating? Of course not, a decent human being would end the relationship before moving on. But I do agree that you should leave an un-salvageable relationship, whether or not you have kids. It’s much better for the kids to know the truth, then making them believe everything is fine and them finding out in the future they were living a lie, especially if both parents are miserable with each other. The negativity will get passed down on to the children one way or another.
It takes a dirtbag and a liar and a sneak to have an affair. You really want to stay married to THAT?
Man or woman, your spouse cheats. End the marriage because it is already done.
Men don’t have a monopoly on cheating.
And if my ‘devoted’ spouse reads this….You are a liar, dirtbag and a sneak and I don’t trust you anymore.
Bye, I’m better off without you.
Thank you for sharing.